by Pi-Yi Chien
Walking away from a love relationship has nothing to do with failure or worthlessness. Some people can never be free from outdated romantic promise of his/her old lover, or literally former lover. Without doubt, the act of giving a promise is sweet. Some people view promise as forever love, and some view it as a commitment or responsibility. We once professed our love for someone with grand romance. We once pledged to love someone forever but we failed. Your sense of confidence might be somehow wavered but your own survival and value hinges on how you evaluate yourself. When the one you count upon let you down, don’t panic. Mutual trust and esteem are necessary requirements in all relationships. You are valuable if you can memorize the best part of life and let the sadness go. Treating yourself well reminds people that you’re worthy of being loved. When a relationship came to an end, how you interpret the relationship matters in the healing process. You have to picture your future visions rather than count on what you loss in a love relationship.
Intimate relationship is what we desire in life. It is understandable that we undergo a sense of powerlessness or a sense of lost whenever the outcome is not what we expect in a life path. We feel painful because we suppose we’ve lost something important or precious. You might be suffered from self-doubt and sense of grief. Waves of emotions pour in at midnight and you feel disoriented.It is widely believe that no matter how accomplished or intelligent you are in real life, still, you might encounter obstacles in love relationships. When your love relationship is in danger, it demands clear-mind, rationality and determination to decide whether to stay or walk away from the relationship. You are not alone. Countless people go through the same experience as you. Almost everybody harbors the desire to build a stable intimate relationship, especially eternal love relationship. If you realize walking away from an unpromisingly love relationship is not a particular tragedy but liberation, you will be totally relieved. If the relationship is basically toxic, then you should be grateful that you end it successfully. You have to tell yourself that both parties agree to end the relationship because you both admit it is a worn-out love relationship.
A toxic Mr. Wrong typically refers to a man who stress you out and make you confused or depressed. Dating with Mr. Wrong is absolutely a route of self-destruction. Dating with a Mr. Right and Mr. Wrong would be extremely contrasting experiences. Wake up from your fantasy! If you desire to be well-treated and be loved, leave him before it is too late.Falling in love with the wrong person with irresistible passion is much like drug-addition. You have to leave the wrong guy with strong determination for the sake of your future. The initial step might be difficult but over time you will feel terribly much better after few months or few weeks or few days.